Are our college kids really THIS UNTHINKING?
I can’t quite get over this, particularly after all the bad press fraternity boys get. “Hope your baby girl is ready for a good time”?????
My friend’s daughter is now going to Ohio Weslyan…she got dropped off over the weekend…..Coed dorms. Not ‘boys on this floor, girls on that floor’…no, it has to be mixed. Guys on the football team are apparently next door to Victoria, this VERY pretty and tiny Hispanic girl from a protective Christian high school. She’s actually quite a tough little cookie, but why should guys be on the girls’ floor? What’s the up side of that? At least they don’t share bathrooms in this dorm but many do….I hear tales of girls wrapping a towel around themselves and running back to their rooms after a shower…….Why should they have to be around that kind of “openness?”
For what purpose are universities creating situations where trouble can happen? Why do their administrations complain about rape, or signs like those above, and do all they can to promote it? Permit (or plan for) pretty young things and hunky guys on the same floor and stand back! It’s like young sailors and whatever they call girl sailors all on a submarine together… These aren’t the days anymore when boys couldn’t even go upstairs in a sorority!
HERE’s a site I found while Googling for this article. Does that seem healthy to you? How can the two sexes cohabitate and not have sites like this, and behavior like this?
What would you do if your daughter was starting at the school in the above image? You dropping her off and just hoping for the best? Clearly, you hope you’ve raised your daughter well , but most parents hope that! Some don’t do so well….
I’ll get off my high-horse of morality now! I know I sound like a total prude, and I’m NOT, but the image above bugged me and I got to thinking about coed dorms and the connection between universities which profess to being horrified by that kind of fraternity stuff but seem to create the environment for it.